My Laws of life

“Think like a man

Act like a lady

Look like a young girl

Work like a horse in this complicated world.”

I was motivated by a wonderful book named “Everything of women’s life can be changed in their twenties.” by Nam In Suk. I have been reading this book from time to time since I got twenty. Then I thought that everyone had unforgettable memories. And the memories always make them happy.

As for me, the most unforgettable action is that I feel I am like a precious stone for myself and my loved ones. Because I am not an ever-recurrent creature and always take pride “being a woman”. However, I suppose that being a woman is not easy. Most women may play many important roles in their lives and careers.

Based on my view, if I confront the problems, I must be patient, clever and strong as I am a woman. And I always believe that the truths about woman are my laws of life. Therefore, I decided to follow those laws so that I can help the “society” to realize how strong the women are.   

First of all, I would like to introduce a quote of John Lennon, who was the member of the Beatles, said   “As usual, there is a great woman behind every idiot.” The saying may express that the women are clever and long-sighted. Most of us think that men are more intelligent than women. I agree with this statement and I must think like a man in order to reach the successful agreement or decision of my life.

Secondly, a woman is the unique creature of the mother land looks elegant, glamorous and graceful. There is an unwritten law that every woman becomes a mother. Every mother is kind, feminine and they always take care for their family while they are working. Likewise, I should respect myself and others genuinely. In this case, I will be able to look like a lady everywhere I go or visit to.

Third thing I thought must be all women’s secret to live happily. Obviously, it is looking like a young girl all the time. I am pretty sure that beauty is one of important issue for women. They always want to look lovely. Some women pay attention to their appearance exercising, going on a diet, dressing up attractively. Why can’t they do that! I fully agree with a saying of Coco Chanel who mentioned that “A woman should be two things: Classy and Fabulous” According to this, although I am a young girl now, It will be time I get older. When that time comes, I must look like a young girl. So I should realize that healthy eating, exercising, learning how to make up correctly, and dressing suitably will help me.

The last important thing is that women must work like a horse. It may seem to be funny but hardworking is the best quality for woman. Nobody can be patient and work hard like a woman. Women have an ability to do the housework, cook and care family members while they are working hard. So I should work like a horse as my mum does. My mother is always busy doing the housework, cooking, washing up and meeting the important people. She does all these things happily and delightedly.

All in all, it may hard to be a woman. All things come to them like a heap. Surprisingly, they can manage those destructive works by their large-heartedness. Besides, a woman has strong spirit. No one has strong spirit except for women. They can even love bad things and make them marvel, they can hate good things and make them devil as women are strong. Therefore, I want to be a woman who can think like a man, act like a lady, look like a young girl and work like a horse. I understood that I must dedicate all my efforts to be a perfect woman. In this case, I will be able to succeed and represent all Mongolian women to get a large position in the society.